I was born in 1974. At that time, the Khmer Rouge were active in my country. When
my Mom tells me about the "killing fields," she refers to the people in charge of running
things were killing a lot of babies, and a lot of people. In approximately a three year
period almost a quarter of my country's population died. It makes me wonder how I
survived.
I remember after the time of the killing fields for every family that came back to the
village, no one had anything to eat or drink, or clothes to wear. It was the most difficult
time. There's really nothing I can compare it to, it was so very bad.
I remember my late Dad working in the city, far away, trying to make some money to
take care of his family. One time I went to visit my Dad in the city for one week. When I
saw my Dad I was so happy. But my Dad and I were sleeping on the sidewalk the
whole week I visited him. I asked him if that was how he slept every day. He said yes,
and I was so sad. He sent me back home.
When I was in school I never had any school supplies, not even one pen or pencil.
There were no books. We used chalk boards that we wrote on with charcoal and then
erased. We had no furniture at the school. We all sat on mats that we made at home
and brought to the school. I remember for a school uniform, I only had one shirt and
one skirt to wear everyday for the whole school year. School was from 7 am to noon
everyday, and I never had any food to eat for breakfast. So every time when I got home
my Mother would make me something to eat since I would be starving.
The school in my village today looks just like the school that I used to study in when I
was a little girl. One day as I was sitting in my classroom, my Mom came and told me
that we had to go to my Aunt's house, to go get some rice from her home in another
village. I told my Mom that we would have to walk all day to get there. My Mom said
yes, but that we would have to go. So we walked all day in the heat of the day and then
the rain came. I was so hungry on that day. Two days later, I was very sick, and I do
not know how or why it happened. Two weeks later, I went back to school. I remember
that around that time my hair started falling out every day, until I was almost bald.
In 1989 I was in fifth grade. One day, we all were in the classroom and we heard
booming and shouting only a few miles away. Our teachers told us that everyone had
to go home quickly. So I ran to my village, and even though one of the soldiers tried to
stop me he couldn’t catch me. I kept running until I got to my home, but it turned out
that no one else was at my village. A soldier grabbed me and put me on his shoulder
and carried me for a mile. He put me down and told me to run this way, and go all the
way to another village and you will see your parents there. I got to the village where the
soldier had told me to go, and I saw my Mom and was so very happy that day.
That night everyone from my village had to sleep in the rice fields. Two or three days
later I went back to school. My classmates and I had to walk a long way every day. I'm
so lucky that I was not walking in front -- the student in front of me was killed by
stepping on a land mine. Some of us also were hurt by shrapnel, and I still have marks
on my body showing my own injury. It was very scary and very sad. There are many
more sad stories like that. That is the reason that to this day I don't like fireworks -- they
sound like war, and they remind me of the sound of that mine exploding.
In 1993 I moved to the city to live with my Aunt. I was very lucky that my first job was to
work for an American newspaper reporter. His name was David and his wife was Sala.
I worked for them for one year before they had to move back to the United States.
Before they moved they introduced me to their friend, Mr. David Miller, who worked for
the U.S. Embassy. I worked for him for one year before he too had to move back to the
U.S.
My third job was working for Mr. Joshua Charap, who worked for the International
Monetary Fund. I worked for him for two years in Cambodia, and then he and his wife
sponsored me to come to work for him in America. I came to work for him in
Washington, D.C. from 1998 to 2000. After that, he had to move to another country.
Fortunately, around that time I met my husband, so I decided to stay in the D.C. area. I
worked for a time as a dental assistant.
Since I came to the USA my dream has been to help my family and the children of my
village. They need clean water. And children need an education. So I saved my
money and I was able to buy three water pumps for my village, and to give scholarships
to four members of my family for them to get a good education.
I was working as a professional caregiver when I met Chelly Baron, after she came to
live in a residential house in Potomac, Maryland in which I worked. Miss Chelly passed
away in December 2012, at age 83. Afterward, her son Jason said that he had become
inspired by the organization "Room to Read," which builds libraries and schools in
villages around the world, and that he wished to help do something for my village. After
he learned that Room to Read did not presently operate in Kampot Province, Jason
decided that we should proceed with a similar project on our own. We sould start with
seeing what school supplies were needed, and maybe one day build a library for the
children of my village.
In January 2015, with Jason's encouragement, I travelled back to my village with
enough money from an initial donation of $1000 to supply approximately 500 children
with school supplies at the Prey Kha Jey Primary School in my village in levels one
through six, equivalent to grades one through six in elementary school in the U.S.
These supplies included a class book, a pen, and a pencil for each student, along with
100 story books, rulers, dictionaries, and assorted other items (including a football, a
couple of volleyballs, and a net).
Jason and I then made a commitment to building a small free-standing library at the
Hun Sen Chum Kiri High School, and to ensure that the library was staffed by at least
one part-time librarian. We also believed that to truly make a difference in the lives of
children, some type of scholarship might be offered to select students who wish to
continue their education at a college or university in Phnom Penh. It costs
approximately $500 a year to go to university.
My brother Ess, who lived in Phnom Penh at the time, pledged his assistance with
building the library, and he organized a construction crew to start to build the library in
the Fall of 2015.
In January 2016, I accompanied Jason to Cambodia for the dedication of The Chelly
Library. About 1000 students were at the school to welcome Jason, my brother Ess,
and myself. It was so overwhelming. When we looked at the childrens' faces they were
so happy -- they knew that the library at their school might help give them a chance for
a better education, and a better chance in finding a good job and having a better life.
We told everyone gathered that if they wished to learn English in a special class that the
Chelly Foundation would be offering the class for free. Since we had only signed up
one English teacher, we tried to provide lessons to hundreds of students. In the time
sense, we were able to offer free English classes to a smaller number of students, but
many students still have benefited from what we have been doing, We need more
English teachers so that all the children can learn. I know that many, many students
have a dream to go to study at a university in Phnom Penh, but from my village few can
afford to do so without a scholarship from The Chelly Foundation.
I accompanied Jason again in 2018 to re-dedicate the Chelly Library, once it had
expanded to have an outside seating area. We also wished to meet as many of the 10
Chelly Scholars that had been funded by The Chelly Foundation with four-year
scholarships. During our trip, we sponsored a large bread feast at the local primary
school, and took over a dozen students to a dentist in Phnom Penh.
In the five years since we started the program, the Chelly Foundation has offered 25
scholarships to young women and men from my village and surrounding villages. We
have built three water and sanitation facilities at local schools, we have given away
dozens of bicycles, we have given out school supplies, we have built a playground, we
have offered English classes including with teachers from English-speaking countries,
and we have sponsored field trips to Angkor Wat and to local cultural events for high
school students. These are only some of the activities we have been doing.
Now my dream is to continue to help more children both in my village and in the area
around my village, to build more libraries, to increase the teaching of English to the
children, and to provide more clean water and sanitary facilities for them.
I am so enormously grateful for any donation that you can possibly afford to make to
improve the lives of students in my home village and in surrounding villages in the
Chum Kiri district of Kampot Province.